Unmoored in timeIf you are a Doctor Who fan you might remember the Doctor trying to explain time to an non-initiate in Time Lord lore and saying that time…Oct 15, 2023Oct 15, 2023
The Five Levels Of GriefThere are levels of looking into that void, the emptiness when you have lost somebody — something — that you loved. You might not know…Sep 24, 2023Sep 24, 2023
Shadow walkingI remember I wrote a poem once a long time ago — I don’t know what became of it — about how I left a little bit of myself, a shadow self…Jun 13, 2022Jun 13, 2022
Caregiving 101: Forgetting JoyMy father died in 2013, leaving as his legacy his widow, my mother, for me to care for. I have been doing that for nearly a decade now —…Apr 27, 2022Apr 27, 2022
Caregiving 101: Behind the curtainI had a sweet and blessed childhood and young-adulthood, okay? I admit it. I had grandparents who doted on me (my maternal grandmother was…Apr 16, 2022Apr 16, 2022
UselessnessIf I may front-load with a metaphor, life is sort of like a train journey. It’s a funny little train, if you like, and your “car” is often…Feb 9, 20221Feb 9, 20221
Too deep for tearsTwo days ago it was the first anniversary of my husband’s death. The first year of my widowhood has fled somehow and there are moments in…Feb 4, 2022Feb 4, 2022